
Alex + Tony
July 31, 2026 · Princeville, Kauai
Please join Alex and Tony on July 30, 2026 to August 1, 2026 as we celebrate our wedding in Princeville, Kauai.
Alex’s Story
Raised in the foggy hills and endless dim sum streets of San Francisco—in Excelsior, to be exact—Alex is the perfect mix of city smarts, grounded calm, and quiet badassery. A proud Chinese American woman, she travels robustly with all the fits—ready for a lazy day, a spontaneous adventure, or a night out on the town. She’ll always pick noodles over rice, no questions asked.
She’s equal parts sharp and silly, thoughtful and spontaneous. She can find those hole-in-the-wall noodle spots, read a room like a therapist—because she is one—and make a toddler laugh in under three seconds flat.
Alex is thoughtful in ways most people never notice—quietly doing the thing that makes your day easier without needing credit for it. She doesn’t need the spotlight, but somehow always shines. Whether she’s deep in conversation or breaking tension with a perfectly timed butt wiggle, Alex brings warmth, wisdom, and joy into every space she’s in.
Tony will tell you: she’s the reason they’re so organized, the reason life flows the way it does—and the true feeling of home every time he hugs her.
Tony’s Story
Tony is a creator, a mover, and a master of making things happen. A choreographer, photographer, and storyteller, he moves through the world with creativity, emotional depth, and a drive to build meaningful experiences—for his art, his family, and his community.
As a father to Margot, Tony brings patience, emotional intelligence, and a deep understanding of child development into every interaction. He listens closely, leads with compassion, and finds that sweet spot between structure and silliness. Whether he’s navigating toddler big emotions or celebrating small milestones, he’s fully present—and always learning.
He’s the kind of partner who can hold space for big feelings, order every dish off a menu (because why not?!), riff on the weirdest inside jokes, or dive into a deep late-night talk without missing a beat. Thoughtful and introspective, Tony is always asking the bigger questions—about himself, his relationships, and the world around him.
He’s the steady, the spark, and the soft place to land—and Alex still can’t believe she gets to marry him.
Our Relationship
Our love lives somewhere between a bowl of noodles and a deep 1 a.m. conversation—with a fart joke thrown in for good measure.
We’re always on the hunt for the perfect boba, the tastiest snacks, and any type of Asian comfort food. Pretty much every meal is “our thing”—as long as we’re together, laughing between bites and splitting the last dumpling smaller and smaller so neither of us has to take the final bite.
We thrive in the in-between moments: late-night snuggles, lazy mornings full of chatter, laughter, and the occasional “sexy reset,” and those quiet, unspoken pauses when we just hold each other and breathe.
We balance the silly and the serious—booty shakes, stinky farts (mostly Alex’s, let’s be honest), and mid-chaos laughter keep things light, while deep conversations about life, love, and parenting keep us grounded. We dream together, challenge each other to grow, and show up—day after day—with tenderness and curiosity.
Alex has helped Tony connect with emotions in ways he never thought possible and is the kind of partner who makes every moment with Margot magically too. Tony helps Alex trust her instincts, step into her power, and know she’s loved exactly as she is.
Our relationship isn’t perfect—it’s better. It’s real, it’s evolving, and it’s ours.

Arrival
July 30, 2026
Welcome Dinner
6:00pm
KILAUEA MARKET + CAFE
2555 Ala Namahana Pkwy B1
Kilauea, HI 96754

Wedding Day
July 31, 2026
Ceremony
5:00pm
1 HOTEL HANALEI BAY
Kamani Cove
5220 Ka Haku Road
Princeville, HI 96722
Cocktail Hour + Reception
6:00pm
1 HOTEL HANALEI BAY
Hanalei Room and Terrace
5220 Ka Haku Road
Princeville, HI 96722

Departure
August 1, 2026
Mehndi Painting
12:00
La Fille
123 Rue de Démo
12345 La ville de New York
+33 06 06 06 06 06
Dinner Party
17:30
Le Chat
123 Rue de Démo
12345 La ville de New York
+33 06 06 06 06 06